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Not only has it provided mankind with new technologies, new methods and new media for information exchange, but also provided mankind with a new open communication platform and created a new way of life. The popularity of the Internet has made a new "instant messaging tool" the most popular and most popular communication tool used by people. Its development has also become increasingly mature and perfect with the development of information technology. It not only provides new opportunities for interpersonal communication. The method speeds up the speed of contact, reduces the cost of communication, improves the efficiency of communication, and makes interpersonal communication extend from the people who are familiar with strong connections to the originally remote and unfamiliar weak connections. Instant messaging tools have become an indispensable tool for everyone who exists on the Internet today. It overcomes the time and space limitations of traditional interpersonal communication, expands people's communication space, expands people's communication methods, and greatly changes It improves people’s perceptions, behaviors and emotions, but it also makes real interpersonal relationships alienated and indirect in some cases, reduces people’s ability to communicate in reality, and causes people’s psychological barriers such as loneliness and indifference, crisis of trust, etc. , Making interpersonal relationships that seem to be getting closer and closer under the influence of the Internet actually become more and more indifferent and separated. Therefore, studying the influence of instant messaging tools on interpersonal relationships has important practical significance, and it has received more and more attention from people. Based on the analysis of the three aspects of interpersonal relationships by instant messaging tools, namely, recognition, behavior and emotion, this paper believes that instant messaging tool communication shows many characteristics different from real social communication, and has already had a certain impact on real social life. , But it is essentially the same as the actual social communication, and exists for the establishment and development of human interpersonal relationships. This paper attempts to start with the characteristics, development, and current use of instant messaging tools, and through its relationship with social life, analyze the causes of instant messaging tools in social, economic, and cultural aspects, and explore the emergence and existence of instant messaging tools. Reality, wide use and rationality; Explain the impact of instant messaging tools on the understanding, behavior and emotions of interpersonal relationships; analyze the changes in the three aspects of interpersonal relationships under the influence of instant messaging tools, and propose the use of instant messaging The rationality and necessity of tools to build harmonious interpersonal relationships. The emergence of such software as instant messaging tool is the result of the high development and integration of information technology. The reason for its formation and the reality of existence are also the result of many aspects such as society, economy, and culture. Nowadays, instant messaging tools are closely related to people's lives and have important influences and effects on them. Instant messaging tools are an expansion of people's real life. It not only provides a new space and opportunity for interpersonal communication, It also gives new connotations to interpersonal relationships. It is undeniable that instant messaging tools have many positive effects on interpersonal relationships, but its negative effects on interpersonal relationships cannot be ignored. Therefore, studying the impact of instant messaging tools on interpersonal relationships has important practical significance for the construction of today's harmonious interpersonal relationships. Through the discussion of the characteristics, development, current status and life of instant messaging tools, as well as the analysis of the social, economic, and cultural factors that have become commonly used communication tools, the positive and negative effects of instant messaging tools on interpersonal relationships are explained. Thereby improving people's correct understanding and grasp of interpersonal relationships under the influence of instant messaging tools. The practical significance is to strive to build a positive relationship between the two, give play to the advantages of instant messaging tools for interpersonal relationships, find ways to cultivate good interpersonal relationships in instant messaging chat, build a good chat order, and guide people, especially as the main body of Internet life For young people, use instant messaging tools correctly, reasonably and appropriately to make them truly convenient for people’s lives, physical and mental health, and emotional harmony.

It not only provides new technologies, new methods and new media for information exchange, but also provides a new open communication platform for human beings and creates a new way of life. And the popularity of the Internet makes a new "instant communication tool" has become the most frequently used, the most popular communication tools, its development with the development of information technology is increasingly mature and perfect, it not only provides a new way of interpersonal communication, speed up the speed of communication, reduce the cost of communication, improve the efficiency of communication, but also from the personal familiar strong contact groups, extended to the original remote, unfamiliar weak contact groups. Instant communication tools for everyone who exists on the Internet today has become a necessary tool, it overcomes the space-time constraints of traditional interpersonal communication, expands people's communication space, expands people's communication means, greatly changes people's understanding, behavior and emotions, but also makes the real interpersonal relationship in some cases become alienated, indirect, make people's ability to communicate in reality decline, but also make people's psychology such as loneliness, trust crisis and other obstacles, It makes the relationships that seem to be getting closer and closer under the influence of the Internet more and more indifferent and diaphragmal. Therefore, it is of great practical significance to study the influence of instant communication tools on interpersonal relationships, and it has been paid more and more attention by people. Through the analysis of the three aspects of interpersonal relationship, namely, understanding, behavior and emotion, this paper holds that the communication of instant communication tools shows many different characteristics from the real social communication, and has had a certain impact on the real social life, but it is consistent with the real social communication in essence, and exists for the establishment and development of human interpersonal relationship. This paper tries to start with the characteristics, development and use of instant messaging tools, through its relationship with social life, the causes of instant messaging tools to carry out social, economic, cultural and other aspects of analysis, to explore the emergence and existence of instant messaging tools, the widespread use and rationality; This paper expounds the influence of instant communication tools on the understanding, behavior and emotion of interpersonal relationships. This paper analyzes the changes in interpersonal relationships under the influence of instant messaging tools, and puts forward the rationality and necessity of using instant messaging tools to build harmonious interpersonal relationships. The production of software such as instant communication tools is the result of the high development and integration of information technology, and the reasons for its formation and the reality of its existence are also the result of social, economic, cultural and other aspects. Today, instant messaging tools are closely related to people's lives and have an important impact on them. Instant communication tool is an extension of people's real life, which not only provides a new space and opportunity for interpersonal communication, but also gives new connotation to interpersonal relationship. There is no denying that instant messaging tools have many positive effects on interpersonal relationships, but their negative effects on interpersonal relationships cannot be ignored. Therefore, it is of great practical significance to study the influence of instant communication tools on interpersonal relationships for the construction of harmonious interpersonal relationships today. Through the discussion of the characteristics, development, use status and life of instant communication tools, as well as the analysis of the social, economic and cultural factors that have become the contact tools commonly used by people, this paper expounds the positive and negative effects of instant messaging tools on interpersonal relationships, so as to improve people's correct understanding and grasp of interpersonal relationships under the influence of instant messaging tools. Practical significance is to try to construct the positive relationship between the two, play the beneficial aspects of instant messaging tools to interpersonal relationships, find ways to cultivate good instant messaging chat interpersonal relationships, build a good chat order, guide people, especially as the main body of Internet life of young people, correctly, rationally and appropriately apply instant messaging tools, so that it becomes a truly convenient life for people, physical and mental health, emotional harmony of communication tools.

It not only provides new technologies, new methods and new media for human information exchange, but also provides a new open communication platform and creates a new way of life. With the popularity of the Internet, an emerging "instant messaging tool" has become the most frequently used and popular communication tool. With the development of information technology, it has become increasingly mature and perfect. It not only provides a new way of interpersonal communication, speeds up the speed of communication, reduces the cost of communication, and improves the efficiency of communication, Moreover, it makes the interpersonal communication extend from the familiar strong contact group to the remote and unfamiliar weak contact group. Instant messaging tool has become a necessary tool for everyone who exists on the Internet. It overcomes the time and space limitation of traditional interpersonal communication, expands people's communication space, expands people's communication means, and greatly changes people's understanding, behavior and emotion. However, it also makes the real interpersonal relationship alienated and indirect in some cases, It makes people's practical communication ability decline, but also makes people's psychology appear such as loneliness, indifference, trust crisis and other obstacles, which makes the interpersonal relationship which seems to be getting closer and closer under the influence of the Internet become more and more indifference and estrangement. Therefore, it is of great practical significance to study the impact of instant messaging tools on interpersonal relationships, and it has attracted more and more attention. Through the analysis of the three aspects of instant communication tools on interpersonal relationship, namely cognition, behavior and emotion, this paper holds that instant communication tools show many different characteristics from the real social communication, and have had a certain impact on the real social life, but it is essentially consistent with the real social communication, All exist for the establishment and development of human interpersonal relationship. This paper tries to start with the characteristics, development and use status of instant messaging tools, through its relationship with social life, analyzes the causes of instant messaging tools from social, economic and cultural aspects, and explores the reality, universality and rationality of the emergence and existence of instant messaging tools; This paper expounds the influence of instant communication tools on the understanding, behavior and emotion of interpersonal relationship, analyzes the changes of interpersonal relationship under the influence of instant communication tools, and puts forward the rationality and necessity of using instant communication tools to build harmonious interpersonal relationship. The emergence of instant messaging software is the result of the high development and integration of information technology. The reason for its formation and the reality of its existence are also the results of society, economy, culture and other aspects. Nowadays, instant messaging tools are closely related to people's lives, and have an important impact on it. Instant messaging tool is an expansion of people's real life. It not only provides a new space and opportunity for interpersonal communication, but also endows interpersonal relationship with new connotation. It is undeniable that instant messaging has many positive effects on interpersonal relationship, but its negative effects on interpersonal relationship can not be ignored. Therefore, it is of great practical significance to study the influence of instant messaging tools on interpersonal relationship for the construction of harmonious interpersonal relationship. Through the discussion of the characteristics, development, current situation and life of instant messaging tools, and the analysis of the social, economic and cultural factors that make instant messaging tools widely used by people, this paper expounds the positive and negative effects of instant messaging tools on interpersonal relationships, so as to improve people's correct understanding and grasp of interpersonal relationships under the influence of instant messaging tools. The practical significance is to strive to build a positive relationship between the two, give full play to the advantages of instant messaging tools for interpersonal relationship, find ways to cultivate good interpersonal relationship of instant messaging, build a good chat order, and guide people, especially teenagers as the main body of Internet life, to use instant messaging tools correctly, reasonably and appropriately, Make it a real communication tool for people's life convenience, physical and mental health, emotional harmony.<br>